You’ve heard the “definition” of insanity—doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.

 

“But I WANT this relationship!”

“I NEED this job!”

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Here’s a good thermometer to gauge whether or not to continue to do something:

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If you’re not enjoying what it is you’re doing, it’s because you’ve lost yourself in it. The Guides say if you’re not happy (in a relationship, job, etc.), it’s time to be brutally honest with yourself.

 

Figure out where you have disappeared to—Where did your smile go? What happened to that spring in your step? Why don’t you laugh anymore?

 

To truly enjoy your situation, you must be present in both mind and spirit...a true active participant. Once you “check the temperature,” you can begin to enjoy positive, healthy experiences into your life.